It does not matter where you were born or were raised, we all grew up under the constant surveillance and strong warning from authorities to not to dare to do certain things: Don´t jupm! Don´t run! Don´t do this or don´t do that, every time this phrase is pronounced, becomes a brick in this humongous wall of fear.
So, from now on, every single time you want to do something you´ve been dreaming about: Go to the gym, learning to skate, write that fucking book, ask her/him to marry, get divorced... ANYTHING! Just please, read this in your mind: GO AND DO THE FUCK YOU WANT.